TransMe: Transgender Dating

• VIP membership — $14.99/month (derived from the IAP title)

Last verified 7 Aug 2026

4.4 3517 ratings · App Store

1. 5/5It's never wrong to be brave and try new things, right?

   I downloaded Transme on a whim, tired of the same old dating apps. When I saw Sofia’s profile—her confident smile, the way she posed with her motorcycle under the LA sunset—I immediately swiped right.  We matched, and after a week of flirty texts, we agreed to meet at a Silver Lake coffee shop. She arrived in a leather jacket, her dark curls bouncing as she walked in. My pulse quickened when she flashed me that same smile from her photos. Over iced coffees, Sofia asked about my work as a graphic designer while casually mentioning her transition. There was no awkwardness, just genuine curiosity between us. I admitted I’d never dated a trans woman before, but that didn’t matter—I just liked her energy.  Afterwards, we walked along Sunset Boulevard as palm trees swayed overhead. She told me about rebuilding her motorcycle engine; I shared my failed attempts at learning guitar. When our hands accidentally brushed, neither of us pulled away. That night, back at my apartment, Sofia texted that she usually doesn’t trust dating apps. I replied that I’ve never been happier to take a chance. Now our second date is tomorrow—she’s teaching me to ride her bike.)

   kennymax01 · 7 Aug 2026

2. 5/5A relatively safe space if you are into trans

   As a dating app specifically designed for the transgender community, TransMe effectively addresses many pain points found on mainstream platforms. On the plus side, what impressed me most was its safety measures— the database recommend verified people first soI’ve met a few genuine people to chat with, and conversations feel pressure-free—unlike other platforms where harassment and discrimination are common. The matching algorithm is decent, recommending compatible profiles based on interests and identity. However, the drawbacks are hard to ignore: the user base is small, especially in certain regions—you might run out of new profiles after a few swipes. Activity levels are low; many users sign up but rarely log in, leading to unanswered matches. Overall, TransMe provides a relatively safe space but it needs better marketing to grow its user base and feature upgrades to improve the experience. If you’ve faced setbacks on mainstream apps, it’s worth a try—just temper your expectations for match efficiency.

   Big_Embassy · 7 Aug 2026

3. 5/5Good option when you’re bored at home

   The registration process is very simple, especially when logging in with an Apple ID—it’s particularly convenient. After logging in, you can see the nearest transgender singles near you. Some of them are really attractive, and you can send them hearts. The reply speed is fairly quick, probably because I only chat with transgender women who are currently online. Once matched, you can start chatting for free, which also saves time for both parties. The main issue I encountered was with profile photo review. I uploaded several beautiful photos of beach girls, and one was removed because the outfit was considered "too revealing." Customer service explained the reason to me, but I think the platform should make the review standards clearer to new users—that would be better. So far, I’ve only been using it for three days, and two local, pretty transgender individuals have already asked me out. If the dates go well, I might consider becoming a VIP member.

   leejennie481 · 7 Aug 2026

4. 5/5Worth a try so far

   I swpied left the photo on Transme again. This is the third month of my breakup, and my friends are saying it‘s time for me to come out. So I downloaded this dating app but always backed down when I was about to swipe right. I couldn’t forget ex. The rain outside the window was drizzling, and I start again. Suddenly, a photo caught my attention - a trans girl holding a bule cat, smiling shyly at the camera. I hesitated for a moment but swipe right to like. I left a comment about her cat. I had a yellow one. That‘s how we started chatting. From cats to favorite movies, from work to small troubles in life, there are more and more topics to discuss. I found that she is a nurse in trans help center. No wonder she always speaks with a gentle smile. She cheered me up so I could get over the pain in a bad relationship. She is a paid member on Transme because she just wanted to pick up sincere guys. I have no idea what will be of us in the future, everything is worth at the moment.

   TalhaApple · 7 Aug 2026

5. 5/5Not perfect app but we both wish more people were active

   Content: I’ll be honest—I didn’t expect much when I downloaded TransMe. After dealing with creepy messages on mainstream apps, I just wanted a space where I could be myself without explaining my identity. But this little rainbow-colored app surprised me.  The first thing I noticed was how many gender options there were—finally, an app that didn’t force me into boxes. I matched with Alex, a nonbinary artist, after bonding over our mutual love of Studio Ghibli films. What started as awkward "hey"s turned into hours of voice messages about gender euphoria, bad dating stories, and our shared obsession with matcha lattes. Three months later, we’ve moved to Discord and send each other morning selfies with bedhead. We’ve never met IRL (they live two states away), but they’re the first person I text when something big happens—good or bad. TransMe didn’t just give me a "match"; it gave me someone who truly gets it.

   Danishinhrx · 7 Aug 2026

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