FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App

• 1 Month Membership — $10.99/month
• 12 Months — $6.99/week
• 12 Months — $18.49/month
• 12 Months — $19.99/month
• 12 Months — $21.99/month
• 12 Months — $90.99/year ($7.58/mo)
• 12 Months — $63.99
• 1000 Points — $6.99
• 10000 Points — $44.99
• 20000 Points — $74.99

Last verified 30 Aug 2026

4.3 23741 ratings · App Store

1. 4/5One Major Issue but the app is growing on me.

   The app is growing on me but it still has a major flaw. If I send a photo or video to someone in a chat I should absolutely be able to select if it is a one time view image or video or whether it will just sit in the chat thread. I mean Facebook messenger has this. Instagram has this. Telegram, WeChat and most major chat apps have exploding images, videos and audios. Also, apps like PURE (which is not as good as FET) takes privacy way more seriously. If you try and screen capture any image or video on the app you get just blackness. This is what I expect from an app like FET. One excuse for not doing it would be people saying no, I want my private images to be screen captured by the person on the other side of the chat. Well then make it optional. Exploding private pics on our private kinky FET app or images that can be opened and full screen at anytime. And feel free to screen capture. Who cares. I think this app is 5 star if they fix this privacy hole

   1111JMC1111 · 30 Aug 2026

2. 1/5For the boys. Ladies beware

   The premise of this site is supposed to be bdsm, doms and subs both male and female. There is verification but yet the males still want into other personal accounts and want more personal information to prove you are real. Not a place for true fem doms, male doms endlessly contact you and report you bc you don’t want to play with them. Male subs also try to dominate, get upset and pushy about getting a response and are often overseas unable and unwilling to meet or do anything except get you to entertain their fantasy. As if saying mistress is all it takes! Teens are on here asking for sexy talk and pictures often overseas also. If you enjoy wasting your time satisfying lazy sex crazed idiots and scammers like all the other dating sites this is the same ticket. If you are a fem dom it’s discriminatory and a total waste of time! Not inclusive to all bdsm. The guys both top and bottom want you to jump through hoops when they say to and are only sub in word alone just to get you to play with them, give your time and attention but have zero intentions of doing anything in action. Not a pic, not a thank you, nothing! Not to mention it’s probably not very safe as it’s serving the lusty desires of morons with zero means or intentions of being sub to any woman no matter how real she is. If you’re a sub woman they’d love to have you. No shortage of men who want to get a leg over you any way they want. These dating sites are empowering to males alone and highly unsafe to women whether submissive or dominant.

   Stickitupurownas · 30 Aug 2026

3. 5/5Review

   So I downloaded this app two months ago at first I really loved this app it seemed nice enough. However, in my first month with this app I discovered that it has sever flaws in its system. For example, the lobby at times can act like a mob. Where they pretty much go after newbies and trolls alike. Not thinking anything of it I joined in until I felt like it was a bit too much. Minus the snarky attitudes the next item on the list is the double standards for members. If someone pays they can blatantly post the N word in lobby and have no repercussions. However, if you role play then all of a sudden you the bad person. In my second month I discovered that you can use your points that you collect to achieve a membership. Which is great and all but it isn’t any better than a non paying member. Lastly if someone goes after you butting into your conversation when it isn’t warranted and they happen to be petty or childlike enough to report you the site will not contact you they just ban you. Over then that have fun getting screwed over. I am throughly disgusted and, glad for the ban. I do not nor will I ever recommend this site to anyone.

   CoutDoe2021 · 30 Aug 2026

4. 1/5Don’t Buy Premium

   I purchased premium because just like all dating apps you can’t see who likes or message most of the ppl using the app. With that said regardless of you buying premium or not buying you still can’t see who visits you or anything. With premium it would tell me someone visited me but not one would be shown on my “checked you out” page. Then with the free version it just blurs out the faces. I reported that I wasn’t able to see the ppl that visited my account when I had premium they said it’s because those ppl are free users. But out of no where the moment I stopped paying for premium because I couldn’t see who visited my profile tons of new ppl with blurred out faces started showing up. This app is a scam it doesn’t matter how much you pay they just keep wanting more. It’s not enough to get a subscription out of that doesn’t do anything. Also even if you do have premium you can’t message over 50% of the ppl on the app they require you to send them a “kinky gift” even if you send the the kinky gift it doesn’t open up the ability to have dialogue. Every person I did eventually talk to. We just ended up using a different app because this one is ridiculous. I can understand a subscription if it unlocks everything but when the subscription doesn’t even do anything it’s just a scam.

   West1285 · 30 Aug 2026

5. 1/5Not a dating app. Literally so bad.

   This is not a dating app. Just a bunch of lonely horny and inexperienced in kink men coming on here to get their rocks off. This app is a hook up app and it’s really sad because there’s so much potential in this app and there’s so much potential in getting a lot of people in the same space who enjoy the same things and have the same interest but then you have people lying about what they want on here and people who don’t even have a fully put together flushed out, verified profile that are reaching out to you. I wish that it was More regulated and that they actually checked what people wanted because majority of people reaching out to me we’re not compatible with me in terms of what my kind were ( wanting a dominant but always having a switch or sub reach out to me???) and then also we’re not looking to respect my interest on my profile. I put LTR, which is long-term relationship only and I put no hook up, but I’m always getting reached out to for a hook or friends with benefits situation. This app just doesn’t do what it should do to actually protect the people on it and the people looking for specific things unless you pay a ton of money to the app and that way I could just go to a members club and just pay money for that like that makes no sense. I would rate it a zero but because I can’t do that I’ll give it a 1. Truly a horrible app and it might inspire me to just create my own kinky dating app that’s actually for dating and not hook ups. In fact, I’d probably make it so there’s dimensions in the app that people get access to based on what they actually come to the app for, a hook up, friends or dating etc.

   sadbeautifultragic · 30 Aug 2026

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